After years of watching planner videos on YouTube, I finally purchased my own Erin Condren Life Planner at the end of 2018 to use this year. Since then, I’ve joined the ranks of many others who film their monthly and weekly decoration with stickers and beautiful calligraphy.
They say that writing down goals is a sure way to support yourself in achieving them. The Erin Condren planner is very versatile, and can be used for work, personal and home plans, academic work, and more. I’ve found that using my weekly decoration time to look ahead for the week is very useful in keeping in mind plans and goals that I have for the week!
As someone who has been actively applying to jobs over the past few months, having a planner where I can both write my to-do’s for the day (submit application! do research on companies! follow up with mentors!) as well as record my accomplishments (had 2 phone interviews last month!) has been a helpful tool during this time of transition, stress, and hard work.
If you are interested in also using a planner, check out my video on YouTube of the unboxing of my 2019 planner. If you are wanting to purchase on for yourself, click the link below to receive a unique $10 coupon for your first purchase! They have periodic sales throughout the year, so keep an eye out! If you love planning, stickers, calligraphy, and organization, please comment below with your own Instagram, blog, or YouTube channel name so I can check out your stuff!
Before we left on our honeymoon in September, I purchased an e-book to read on the many flights we had over the course of the trip. It’s called The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed To Transform Your Life… (Before 8AM). I didn’t end up reading it on the trip, instead choosing to read a non-fiction paperback about the hey day of antique wines in the 1980s. Fascinating stuff!
In October and November, I was reading on and off, a bit at a time. I finally made my way through The Miracle Morning. The general gist of the book is to take some time right after waking up in the morning to devote oneself to self-development. The author lists six activities to do during this time: silence/meditation, exercise, affirmations, visualization, reading, and journaling.
I was not terribly impressed with the book itself, and found it gimmicky and lame how the author refers to his own ‘level 10’ success. His simple idea of making time for self-improvement in the morning is a good one though. I used to get up with only 45 minutes or so to get ready. After I started giving myself an hour and fifteen minutes, I felt much calmer and more prepared for the day. I didn’t need to rush through my routines, could eat breakfast and spend some time with the cats.
Perhaps the new year is a good time to again read the book Savor: Living Abundantly Where You Are, As You Are. I started reading its short entries (one per day) for a few months in 2016, and writing brief responses to them in my journal. Perhaps reflecting on topics such as life, love, and grief could help me live a more appreciative life. The entries in the book are super short, so reading and writing about them for 5 minutes as I enjoy my toast in the morning is doable.
Are you a morning person? Are there things you do when you wake up that make sure the day is a good one?
My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years, Michael, proposed to me last Christmas morning. I said yes, accepted a beautiful engagement ring, and started planning in late January.
People ask us questions about the wedding all the time these days: What are your wedding colors? Are you having a bachelorette party? Are you going to have an emcee, DJ, or band? What will your song be?
These are questions that have nothing to do with our wedding. I don’t blame people for asking us these things though; the wedding industry has shaped how Americans think a wedding should be. People have their own expectations.
Questions that do relate to our wedding include: How many cities are you visiting during your trip? Is it ok if I come to more than one celebration? What is your actual wedding date?
We’re going to have a small, private ceremony somewhere on the beach with just our parents, and going out to dinner later that evening. The following day, we’re throwing a big picnic for family, friends, and coworkers in a large park on scenic windward Oahu, complete with a tent if the weather shouldn’t cooperate and caterers serving a big buffet. Later that week, Michael and I depart on a month-long trip that includes ten days in South Africa (that’s our honeymoon), as well as stops in 4 cities in the mainland US and London to see friends and family and take them out for fancy dinners.
We decided early on in our process to focus on what we value for our wedding. We are only including what we want– a focus on delicious food! We will not need a fancy DJ or things in certain ‘colors’. Saving in some areas will enable us to celebrate in many more cities during our epic trip. Keeping it simple for us has meant drawing a line and making sure we stick to our guns.
Stay tuned for future blog posts about:
Selecting an affordable venue in Hawaii
Budgeting and matching your budget to your priorities
Managing others’ expectations for your wedding
If you have specific questions about our wedding planning process, leave a comment down below!
It’s been years since I went SCUBA diving. Back when I got certified, I purchased some quality equipment and went on some amazing dives off the coast of the Big Island of Hawaii. It was very cool, exhilarating even, but I always felt as though I was defying the laws of nature by being fifty feet below the surface of the ocean.
So my wetsuit has moved with me as I go, hung in my closet in three different apartments over the years. Why did I keep the wetsuit for so long? It was an investment that I made long ago, so I wanted to ‘get my money’s worth’. People have a hard time letting go, but once they do it’s a relief. See this article for more on this phenomenon: https://www.headspace.com/blog/2017/06/16/cutting-losses/ Once I came to grips with reality– that I’m not a regular SCUBA diver anymore, and if I ever wanted to go diving again, I could just rent a suit on that occasion– I wanted to pass it onto someone who could use it.
I posted my wetsuit on craigslist and have kept relisting it as the ad expires, every couple months. I’d reduce my asking price to try to entice a buyer. Finally, it worked out last night and a woman purchased my wetsuit. I feel great. My closet isn’t housing something I never use, and it can go with her on exciting dives in Hawaii! I may have only gotten back a fraction of the amount I paid for the suit, but I no longer have the obligation to keep it, which is a great, light feeling.
Do you keep things just because you feel like you should? Have you gotten rid of anything recently– how did you feel?
I used to take pride in not being dependent on any substance. I never smoked at all, or drank alcohol or caffeine regularly. I pitied those who became dependent on alcohol to have a good time, or caffeine to be productive.
Fast forward past college, living abroad for a number of years, grad school and nearly 5 years working in my field as a professional. Since starting my full-time job, I drink a cup of coffee more or less every morning. The days when I don’t drink coffee are few and far between, and when I don’t drink it, I miss it.
In part, it’s my routine when I arrive at the office and prepare a cup of hot, fragrant coffee. I enjoy it as I sort my emails and get my papers in order to tackle my to-do list for the day. Or I step out after checking my email and get some Starbucks coffee from down the street. I enjoy walking with coworkers and catching up during this short excursion.
I like how the caffeine in coffee boosts both my productivity and seemingly, my optimism early in the morning. After my cup of coffee, I can do anything. I can do everything. And I can do it well, early, and under budget. I am invincible and amazing. At least, that’s how I feel with the drug flowing through my veins.
And let’s be real: caffeine is a drug. It is not harmless. Wikipedia has the following to say about it:
Despite its wide usage and popularity, caffeine is still a drug that people use to support their productivity and lifestyles. For me, it’s now a big part of my morning routine both at work and at home.
Do you drink coffee? Does it make you more productive? Are you addicted?
I posted a Youtube video a while back which outlined how I budget.
Since then, I realized that the assumptions I was making in executing my budget weren’t working for me. The ‘non-monthly’ expenses that I saved for each month weren’t all on the same schedule, and I wasn’t actually moving the money each month into a dedicated place for those expenses. Theoretically, after a year the non-monthly expenses such as credit card fees ($89) and membership dues for Toastmasters ($80) and a professional certification ($400+) would be covered by the money in my main account. In actuality, it wasn’t that easy to track or ensure I’d have enough in the main account to cover each non-monthly expense when it would pop up.
So I decided to include the non-monthly expense total each month (now $107) as a transfer to a separate account that I make each month. Then, when one of those expenses comes along, I can transfer the needed amount back into my main account from my savings.
That’s another thing worth mentioning– I used to have two separate accounts, one for emergencies and one for travel. After we returned from our big trip to Europe last year, I wanted to simplify my finances and decided to close one of the accounts and just have one general savings account. Emergency funds, money available for using to cover non-monthly expenses, and money to devote to travel are all co-mingled in that one account. My goal is to maintain a hefty, healthy balance and pad it whenever possible.
In order to ensure my financial peace of mind, I decided to use what I had in my old emergency fund to pay off bills and expenses one month early. Then I started building up my savings again, but this time it was with actual money that can be saved, not money that could have paid off my credit card expenses for the month. I never carry a balance on my credit cards, but this way, each paycheck is devoted partly to paying off the next month’s expenses, partly to savings. Being a month ahead gives me assurance that I’ll have enough in my main account to cover everything.